Emotional Healing Process A facilitated transformational-change experience that has a start, a middle, and an end.

Solution

When people come together in communities, old survival patterns get activated and emotional reactivity occurs as a necessary side-effect, if Transformation and Initiation into authentic Adulthood has not occurred. Emotional Healing Processes are a technology to promote authentic adulthood initiation based on the Distinction between Feelings and Emotions: Feelings are Anger, Sadness, Fear and Joy from this very moment and serve to navigate Now, whereas Emotions are doorways for Healing. Emotions are – mostly – unexpressed emotions of anger, fear, sadness and joy from the past. Emotions last longer than 5 minutes. By going through Emotional Healing Processes, space is created for authentic adult Feelings to navigate community living and collaboration.

An ‘Emotional Healing Process‘ is ‘a facilitated Transformational-change experience that has a start, a middle, and an end’. A typical Emotional Healing Process will require from 30 to 120 minutes start to finish.

The prerequisite for successful results in Emotional Healing Process is some degree of awareness and competence with Inner Navigation skills, in other words, being able to Consciously Feel.

Almost always a Process will involve experiencing and expressing Feelings and/or Emotions because in Possibility Management we have observed that if there is no Liquid State (an any of your 5 Bodies) then there is no change.

For this reason we highly recommend participating in at least one Expand The Box training, and 10 or more Possibility Labs. Further along your evolutionary Path, certain deep Healing, Transformation, or Authentic Adulthood Initiatory Processes may put you in Liquid States for a few weeks or a couple of months while things reorder themselves. This is how it goes. Eventually you spend more time in Groundless States than in Solid States and you experientially discover that human beings are designed to fly.

Possibility Management Emotional Healing Processes are not Cathartic. They are Cathectic. This means that rather than ‘trying to get rid of those bad or negative feelings’ (catharsis), we consciously use the intelligence and energy of Feelings and Emotions for healings, initiations, and the evolution of Consciousness (cathexis).

What we have found is that Feelings and Emotions are not design errors from Gaia, but rather they are precious resources of energy and information needed for fulfilling your Destiny and delivering the services of your Archetypal Lineage to the Village.

Specifically: Feelings are for handling things. Emotions are for healing things. The lack of this distinction in most Ecovillages and other fantastic projects often leads to their collapse or stuckness through unconscious, irresponsible survival strategies.

Through Cathectic Processes you can learn Inner Navigating as part of Conscious Feelings. Then your Emotional Energy can be directed towards healing, Building Matrix, Authentic Adulthood Initiations, Archetypal Transformations, and Regeneration.

Healing, Initiation, and Transformation are, by nature, both nonlinear and unreasonable. This means that a Possibilitator needs skills for creating and navigating unreasonable nonlinear spaces. Such skills are not taught in mainstream culture. Learning these skills requires that you take Radical Responsibility for shifting your Point Of Origin out of mainstream culture and planting it into next culture, where emotional healing skills are as central and widespread as using a smart phone is in mainstream culture.

Whether you are the Client going through the Emotional Healing Process, or the Possibilitator, who is Holding and Navigating Space for someone else to go through an Emotional Healing Process, you cannot know how the process will go.

In Emotional Healing Processes, the Possibilitator is always at risk of Transformation. This requires being Centered, Grounded, Bubbled, Present, Attentive, Radically Responsible, and resourcefully not knowing.

To be clear, Possibility Management is not a method. Neither is it primarily Emotional Healing Process Work. Possibility Management is a growing cloud of copyleft, open-code distinctions, tools, thoughtware, and processes constantly emerging from the context of Radical Responsibility, useful for originating Possibility when there is not enough, and banishing Possibility when there is too much.

Possibility is a Bright Principle, and one of the most valuable qualities in the Universe. It cannot be monetized, trademarked, or franchised. Possibility is a treasure that grows by giving it away.

There is need of thousands more skilled Possibilitators in every language, culture, and domain to help facilitate the massive personal, organizational, and cultural shifts happening around the world right now as humanity departs from the capitalist patriarchal empire in the same way a butterfly departs from a cocoon, and invents and inhabits next culture: Archiarchy.

Archiarchy is the culture of archetypally initiated adult women creative collaborating with archetypally initiated adult men – the culture that naturally emerges after matriarchy and patriarchy have run their course.

Perhaps facilitating Emotional Healing Processes as a bridge to Archiarchy is your calling. If so, it is not too late to Start Over.

Certainly, Emotional Healing Processes can be a game-changer for your ecovillage as emotional reactivity is transformed in 3-phase-Healing.

You will find more information about what Emotional Healing Process is… and what it is not… here: emotionalhealingprocess.mystrikingly.com